One Thing You Need to Commit
Commitment has been top of mind for me lately, especially since I got married in July! While Neil and I have been partners for the last 13 years, getting married is another level of commitment and one we took very seriously.
My biggest concern was that things would change after getting married and since we have both worked so hard to communicate with, respect, and honor each other, I wanted that to continue, and get even better!
There are many reasons to commit. Whether you are finishing a degree, following an exercise plan, or nurturing a relationship, the one thing you need to do is … commit to yourself first.  Â
Your commitment is yours and has to have purpose and meaning for you. If you are making it for someone or something else, it becomes a should and you will be less inclined to follow through because you are too busy, tired, or even resentful.
I wrote part of my wedding vows to reflect this:
When I live with an open heart, I’m happier and
feel more connected to myself and you.
My life opens and expands because my
heart opens and expands.
I am a better person and a better partner.
I commit to keeping my heart open and
expansive so there is always room for you, Neil…
When we commit to living with an open heart, we have the capacity to commit fully, in sickness and health, in good times and bad. And when we forget, (and we will) we are reminded of our humanness and get to recommit again. To learn and grow about ourselves in our commitments in marriage, work, health and everything else is the practice of resilience. Â Â
Congratulations Diane!
Thank you Cathy!
Congratulations, Diane & Neil! Beautiful couple, beautiful wedding. Wishing you a loving, long, & committed life together.
Love & hugs,
Ann
Thank you so much for the lovely wishes, Ann! They are my sentiments as well.
Because of a few nagging health issues, I have committed to a plant-based diet. When I waiver from that commitment, I personally pay for that lack of judgement. Commitment is the key.
Well spoken wisdom,Leona!
Thank you for sharing your loving view of commitment to ourselves and others. Best wishes for a wonderful future. Love and miss you.
Thank you so much Judy!
Congratulations on your marriage! What a beautiful couple you make :). Happiness always.
Thank you so much Sue!
huge congrats!!! beautiful dress
Thank you so much JoAnn.
Your wedding vows are fabulous Diane; you clearly put priority on communication.
I rejoice with you and Neil… and, those around you get to feel your loving energy .
Thank you for your loving kind words, Sandy!
Diane, Wonderful happy news about you and Neil. To continued growth and happiness in the years ahead.
Thank you so much Luci!
Congratulations to you and Neil!
Thank you so much Sarah!
Congratulations! Lovely pictures and thank you for sharing your special moments and vows with us. You are always an inspiration!
Thank you so much Karen! I’m so happy to hear you find value in my posts.